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We are part of a group of librarian friends who have had an ongoing book club running for the last several years. Each “season” (we’re nerds) we pick a theme and each of us chooses a book within that theme for us all to read. For this blog, we will post a joint review of each book we read for book club. We’ll also post the next book coming up in book club. So feel free to read along with us or use our book selections and questions in your own book club! This season’s theme is books with specific colored covers where we all drew a color and matched it with a book.
Book: “Will My Cat Eat My Eyeballs?: Big Questions from Tiny Mortals about Death” by Caitlin Doughty
Publishing Info: W. W. Norton & Company, September 2019
Where Did We Get This Book: Serena got the audiobook from the library; Kate got a print copy from the library
Where You Can Get This Book: WorldCat.org | Amazon | Indiebound
Prompt Color: Red
Book Description: Every day, funeral director Caitlin Doughty receives dozens of questions about death. The best questions come from kids: What would happen to an astronaut’s body if it were pushed out of a space shuttle? Do people poop when they die? Can Grandma have a Viking funeral?
In Will My Cat Eat My Eyeballs?, Doughty blends her mortician’s knowledge and the intriguing history behind common misconceptions about corpses to offer factual, hilarious, and candid answers to thirty-five questions. In her inimitable voice, Doughty details the lore and science of what happens to, and inside, our bodies after we die. Why do corpses groan? What causes bodies to turn colors during decomposition? And why do hair and nails appear longer after death? Readers will learn the best soil for mummifying, whether you can preserve your best friend’s skull as a keepsake, and what happens when you die on a plane.
Kate’s Thoughts
This isn’t my first time at the ‘book about death’ rodeo. I’ve always been interested in death and death rituals and things like that (I even took a class in college about graveyard imagery and burial practices), and I’ve read books like “Stiff” by Mary Roach and others. Book Club picked “Will My Cat Eat My Eyeballs” and the concept alone was incredibly fun. I was more than happy to pick it up, and I had a very fun time reading it.
This book takes a very simple concept: children have questions about death, some are outlandish and hilarious, others are poignant and bittersweet, and a mortician, Caitlin Doughty, answers them in a straightforward and scientific way (though for adults). They range from questions about what happens to bodies if an astronaut dies in space, or if you can keep a loved one’s bones, or what happens when a person dies on a plane, and while some sound completely wacky (after all, kids asked the questions), Doughty approaches it with full seriousness and answers the questions in a scientific and realistic manner. She clearly knows what she is talking about, and she makes the answers, no matter how outlandish the question, accessible and interesting for a layman. The questions are from kids but the answers are for adults (though I do think teens would find this a very fun read too without being too complex or wordy), and while I knew a lot already (I’m a morbid weirdo after all), some explanations were actually new to me and really fun.
I also liked the humor that Doughty brings to this. I’ve always had a bit of a gallows humor streak when it comes to comedy I enjoy, and Doughty sometimes tries a little hard, but overall I really enjoyed the jokes and the flow of the humor, be it just kooky and fun or kind of macabre. It just hit in the ways that I wanted it to hit, and I read it in one afternoon it flowed so well.
So if you like death talk and want some solid facts wrapped in a very easy to digest package from a mortician, “Will My Cat Eat My Eyeballs?” could be a good choice of book to check out!
Serena’s Thoughts:
This is the kind of book that is kind of hard to review. Because, on one hand, I think it would work well for its target audience (children who have questions about death and want light-hearted but informative answers), but for me, an adult, it was just an ok reading experience. I listened to the audiobook version, which the author narrated herself. She did a fine job, but for me, I feel like the combination of her narration style and the type of humor she utilized didn’t quite work for me. Kids will likely find it hilarious, but I found it to be a bit “try-hard” at times. Further, some of the references and jokes are clearly directed at adult readers and won’t be understood by kids, but this just made my personal disconnect with these comedic beats be felt all the more strongly.
Beyond the humor, the book was generally informative. Again, this is for children, so much of the information was familiar to me, but there were some interesting tidbits thrown in here and there that I found genuinely interesting. For example, there was a version of a spacecraft that was in use at one time that had a dedicated storage capacity for dead astronauts, should the worst occur. But beyond these moments, much of this was familiar. There were also a few questions that had answers that were almost the same. We heard more about “corpse desecration” laws than I needed to know!
But, again, I wasn’t the target audience for this. That said, I think that young readers who want a gentle and generally amusing introduction to some of the scientific aspects of death will be well served by this one.
Kate’s Rating 9 : This is one hundred percent my kind of jam due to the morbid curiosity, the interesting scientific and historical facts, and the gallows humor that it is all packaged within.
Serena’s Rating 7: Probably a great resource for children with questions about death, but as an adult reader, I wasn’t particularly blown away by this one.
Book Club Questions
- Did this book change your perceptions on death and dying?
- Were there any scenarios or explanations of death in this book that kind of surprised you?
- Have you thought about what you want done with your remains after you die? Has that changed at all as time has gone on?
- Have you read any other books about dying and death? How did they compare to this one?
- Who would you recommend this book to? Kids? Teens? Adults?
Reader’s Advisory
“Will My Cat Eat My Eyeballs?: Big Questions from Tiny Mortals about Death” is included on these Goodreads lists: Humorous, Strange, or Downright Shocking Titles and Non-Fiction Books About Death and Death Culture.
Next Book Club Pick: “Forgive-Me-Not” by Mari Costa













