Kate’s Review: “Tunis to Sydney”

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Book: “Tunis to Sydney” by Meriam & Christian Carnouche, & Sam Rapley (Ill.)

Publishing Info: Fairsquare Graphics, August 2024

Where Did I Get This Book: I received an eARC from the authors.

Where You Can Get This Book: WorldCat.org | Amazon | Indiebound

Book Description: Lilia and Bill enjoy a tranquil life in the heart of Sydney, Australia. Bill is a local, while Lilia hails from Tunisia, making them an unconventional but inseparable pair. Their happiness has always been unshakeable, until that day. 

When Lilia receives the devastating news of her parents’ tragic death in a car accident, a staggering ten thousand miles away. She’s consumed by a profound sense of shock. The weight of unspoken questions surfaces. Did she fail her parents by not being there for them throughout the years?

As they hastily journey to Tunis for the funeral, Bill stands steadfastly by Lilia’s side, offering unwavering support. Yet, this journey unveils the fault lines in Lilia’s life, leading her to confront a cascade of profound questions.

Dive into a poignant graphic novel that delves into the labyrinth of grief, resilience in the face of loss, and the complexities of human relationships.

Review: Thank you to Christian Carnouche for sending me an eARC of this graphic novel!

I am very fortunate in that I haven’t experienced a deep in my bones kind of grief in my life when it comes to losing people I care about. I know many people who have, however, and I kept thinking about this as I read the graphic novel “Tunis to Sydney” by Meriam and Christian Carnouche. When I saw this novel in my inbox, the description sounded interesting, in that the graphic novels I read tend to be more genre focused, or full on memoir. But this one really grabbed me, and I decided to give it a try, mainly because the idea of following a woman in grieving her parents, and returning to her childhood home in Tunisia. I am so, so glad that I took a chance on this one because wow did it deliver.

“Tunis to Sydney” is very much a ‘day in the life’ kind of book, though it’s more like a few months in the life. We follow Lilia and Bill, a married couple living in Sydney, Australia, though Lilia is originally from Tunisia. When she gets a horrible phone call that both her parents have been killed in a car accident, they return to Tunis to make plans for the funeral. The story is a path of Lilia’s loss of her parents and how she maneuvers through a deep grief and all the other feelings that come with it, like shock, guilt, and rage. I though that following this journey was very poignant, and that it touches upon the guilt of leaving loved ones behind for a new life as well as a sense of loss. But that loss is not only of immediate family, but of a place as well, as Lilia has returned to Tunis after being gone for so long, and readjusting if only for a little while. Watching her move through scenes of her former home was so bittersweet, and I loved the moments with the community, and within spaces that she hadn’t seen in so long, be it her mother’s greenhouse or even the market or Zitouna Mosque.

I also appreciated how up front and honest this story was with how grief and loss, especially an astronomical one such as the loss of not one but two parents, can consume a person. Lilia is reeling through most of the story, moving from shock to guilt to sadness to anger and back around, and her emotions and palpable and completely leap off the pages. She has her moments of being overcome by many of these differing stages, and while she has her moments of being unfair or even cruel to her husband after the loss as really taken its toll, there is always sympathy for her, and the story never makes her out to be right or wrong, nor does it judge her. It shows how grief and trauma of this type can be incredibly messy, and I thought that was such an honest point of view and route to take. It also made her journey feel that much more touching, seeing her resilience in the face of despair, while her loving partner and husband is there to support her in any way he can, even if that means dealing with difficult moments.

And I REALLY loved the artwork in this. Sam Rapley’s style is a mix of realism as well as a clear aesthetic that makes for very poignant imagery that is striking. There were moments and images that really took my breath away, and really added to the overall weight of the story.

Overall I really, really enjoyed “Tunis to Sydney”. It’s heartfelt, quiet, and deeply emotional. Absolutely lovey.

Rating 9: A lovely and melancholy story about loss, grief, and healing. Incredibly moving and stunning artwork. Highly recommend.

Readers’s Advisory:

“Tunis to Sydney” isn’t on any Goodreads lists as of yet, but it would fit in on “Best Books About Grief and Grieving”.